Divorce is a significant and emotional event, not only for parents but also for children. Delivering the news in a thoughtful, appropriate, and loving way can help reduce the emotional impact and confusion for children. Below are some helpful tips for parents to approach this topic gently and effectively.
The most important thing when talking to children about divorce is to create a safe space where they can express their feelings. According to a study by the American Psychological Association (APA, 2020), children often feel anxious, fearful, or even blame themselves when they hear their parents are getting divorced. Therefore, choose the right time, such as during the weekend or a quiet evening, to ensure there is enough time for the conversation.
“Children need to feel that even though the family is changing, the love from their parents will never fade.” This is the message emphasized by psychologists from the Family Research Centre, Australia (2022). Young children need reassurance that the divorce is not their fault, and that their relationship with both parents will remain unchanged.

When starting the conversation, keep it short, clear, and age-appropriate. For younger children, use simple sentences such as: “Mom and Dad will live in different places, but we are still a family.” For older children, you can explain in more detail, emphasizing the reasons behind the decision to bring the best for everyone.
It’s important to avoid speaking negatively about the other parent in front of the child. A study from the University of Virginia (Amato & Cheadle, 2017) found that children are often negatively affected psychologically when they hear their parents speak poorly about each other. Instead, focus on positive messages, such as how both parents will cooperate to care for and love the child.
Finally, make sure to keep your promises. If you promised to visit the child weekly or participate in a specific activity together, follow through. Children need to see stability during a time when their world is changing.
“Consistency and stability are key to helping children get through this difficult period,” according to a report from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP, 2019).
Divorce is never easy, but with careful preparation and boundless love, parents can help children navigate this phase more gently, setting the foundation for a positive future.
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