Teaching children respect is not only an educational task but also contributes to building their character and social integration skills. At the age of 6 to 8, children begin to understand more about relationships and their roles in the family as well as the community. This is a crucial stage for parents to guide, direct, and set an example to help children naturally and sustainably learn to respect others.
According to Jane Nelsen, an education expert and co-author of Positive Discipline A–Z, children at this age often test boundaries to understand power and their own abilities. “Children need to learn respect, and this learning begins at home”. This means that parents must play the role of role models while setting clear but gentle boundaries.
“Children don’t just learn through words but also through actions. When parents show patience and politeness, children will naturally imitate these behaviors in their daily lives.” (According to a study by the American Psychological Association, 2020.)
First, showing respect to children is the first step in helping them understand and apply it to others. Jerry Wyckoff, a psychologist and co-author of Twenty Teachable Virtues, emphasizes: “We often ask children to respect us while forgetting that we also need to treat them with the same respect.” Instead of imposing, parents can create opportunities for children to express their opinions during family discussions or meetings. When children feel heard and valued, they will naturally learn to appreciate others’ feelings and perspectives.
Using polite reminders such as “please” and “thank you” in daily communication is also a simple yet effective way to build a foundation of respect. Children aged 6 to 8 often easily remember and repeat these habits if they are practiced regularly within the family. Additionally, parents need to explain to children why politeness and respect are important. For example, instead of simply telling children not to give orders, explain: “I am happy when you ask for help politely. It makes me feel respected.”

A common issue parents face is that children may intentionally use rude words or engage in provocative actions. In such cases, staying calm is very important. If a child calls you an inappropriate nickname, avoid reacting angrily, and instead, calmly speak directly: “In our family, we do not call each other ugly names. If you need help, just say: ‘Mom, help me please.’ I will be happy to assist.”
According to experts, setting boundaries also plays a crucial role in teaching children respect. This means parents need to be consistent in handling situations. For example, if a child throws a tantrum in public, briefly inform them: “I understand you’re upset. We will leave here and come back when you’re calm.” This is not only a tactful way to handle the situation but also helps children realize the consequences of their actions.

Finally, praising and acknowledging when children show respect is a way to reinforce positive behavior. Be sure to make the praise specific and descriptive, such as: “Thank you for saying thank you when you received a gift. That’s very polite.” According to Jerry Wyckoff, specific praise like this helps children understand that their efforts are valued and meaningful.
Teaching children respect is not an easy task, but with patience, love, and the right approach, parents can help children develop well-rounded character. As Nelsen said: “When children understand that parents truly care about their thoughts and feelings, positive values such as respect will naturally form.”
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